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mindworker1970 53M
328 posts
12/29/2017 10:26 am

I have used toys on the woman I was with... her suggestion but I was curious to try... WOW. We had a LOT of fun the first time and did it a few times after, but not every time. Just another way to enjoy each other.


Ienjoythetaste 75M
2560 posts
12/29/2017 10:46 am

"Are you intimidated by toys?" No

"Have you explored with either his, hers, or both?" Yes both

"What is stopping you from being a little adventurous? or at least having an orgasm from a little extra stimulation?" My queen is not around till mid February

As to "is the world still flat?" Some people think is that way, they don't move with the times or new discoveries.

“For a moment, nothing happened. Then, after a second or so, nothing continued to happen.”
― Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy
Much like this site

Visit my Blog for my adventures.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
12/29/2017 10:55 am

Are your insecurities that consuming that you project your fears onto others?
The inter/web/nest is where everyone is free to be as insecure, ignorant/fearful, and just plain stupid as they can possibly be. They call it "social" media.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


rusty_nail 74M  
699 posts
12/29/2017 12:06 pm

Never get between a woman and her rabbit. lol


HamburgDave2 80M
16526 posts
12/29/2017 12:16 pm

Hello Flower You can tell it is School Holiday Time

I have bought Sex Toys (Realistic Vibrator and Butt Plug) with a Lover, and used them with her However I don't think a Fleshlight could be an improvement on Rosie Palm and her 5 little Daughters


Visit my Blog Older but no Wiser and find out more


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
12/29/2017 2:15 pm

I love being bound and having Sex Toys used on me....it is a rush!!
I like the idea of writing about sex and masturbation...or BDSM would be very HOT!! too


hung4xxx69fun 46M

12/29/2017 2:23 pm

You are right on.


HungSmartnQuiet 43M

12/29/2017 2:53 pm

There is so much mentally involved in the male orgasm, if you get into the moment, that desensitization, however possible, isn’t as likely as it may seem.


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
12/30/2017 1:30 am

A FWB used a rabbit on herself just to demonstrate its powers for me, but never used anything myself.

I'd rather have a bit of snogging/cuddling/interaction with someone without it going anywhere to an "artificially" created orgasm from an inanimate object.

I know we can't always manage that as needs must be satisfied but given the options that's what I'd go for.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


dan_nl_2006 42M
1117 posts
12/30/2017 6:06 am

I agree with you 100% and I think you summarized it well when you said "The struggle is real on both sides of the gender divides, you just have to find others that match your demons not your angels"

I always considered toys to be added help or complimentary help.
Sex is defiantly enjoyable with a real person. The touching, the exploring of eachothers bodies, the reaction as I kiss different zones. Its the warping of the legs and being pulled towards her, its riding to pleasure, her wetness flowing, it the look in her eyes - ok the list goes on and it is getting very sexual


Picturethis520 62M

12/30/2017 6:21 am

All kinds of toys in that box, for both her & him. Sometimes it seems that is all sex has boiled down to. There are even a couple brand new ones still in their package awaiting the next contestant

Their reaction to this subject (like so many others today) just goes to show you (we) know something they don't, and have expanded your life to not only except but also to appreciate it.

Seeking quality in an extroverted society
~Terra Explorare~ Picturethis520


1tongue4yall 64M
2205 posts
12/30/2017 6:36 am

yea, there are still a LOT of prudes out there.
i don't understand it all but it is what it is...
personally i would love to watch a woman use her toys on herself...and i would learn what she likes and be able to take over for her...fun fun


adamw1970 53M
99 posts
1/1/2018 8:19 am

Flower—

As far as I’m concerned, the more toys there are, the more fun we’re going to have together! I know there are toys I own that touch me in (incredible) places that women can’t reach, just as you probably have ones that do things for you that no man’s anatomy ever possibly could. For me, the best sexual experiences have occurred when my partner isn’t intimidated by that fact, actually embraces it, and is turned on by the possibility of using toys to help me (and I her) find better, hotter orgasms and pleasure.

Your thoughts?

Best,
AJW


Exper1mental1st 48M
125 posts
1/6/2018 2:17 pm

Never intimidated by toys, have bought and shared many.
I tell a lie - I would be intimidated, and more than a little scared, if a partner got out an anal gnome and said they were going to use it on me :-o


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