Not your type (?)  

aflower2c 43F  
3451 posts
2/14/2018 3:44 pm
Not your type (?)


Sexy bloggers,
Let's see
I have been around dating sites long enough to have a pretty good feel about preferences, more specifically men's wording and his preferences when it comes to attraction.

When I read a profile and he states something along the lines of:
"Seeking hot/beautiful/attractive/sexy woman"
I pretty much just pass him by because experience has proven over again n again that he is 99% referring to conventionally attractive women.

My same experience applies to attractive/handsome men, generally they look for someone hotter then he is.

BUT... why don't (many) men believe me when I say that I'm not his type nor what he is looking for?
Do you not like the fact that you stated that you want attractive so that really does mean that you want attractive and I think most women have a pretty good grasp on where they stand on the "attraction scale" (#notallwomen) ...

So then he proceeds to make a big deal about not being "shallow" and that he's "open to everyone"! Pesters me into sharing a face pic........then he ghosts.
So much for not being shallow
Lol.

Don't worry I am so used to it that I don't even bother trying. pays to know where you stand on the average scale. Lol. And yes the hookup guys are the worst when it comes to this, so don't believe it when they say men can get it up for a stiff breeze. I'm on a dating site that seems to have lots of attractive men on it, so I won't be meeting anyone soon on there.

So sexy bloggers,
Are you as open as you claim?
Do you get angry when she points it out that you want hot?
Or if she thinks she's hotter than she actually is?
(I think that's a catfish thing)
What about your preferences, set in age group and attractiveness?

(The younger she is the less hot she can be because yanno she's young)
Now I am not talking absolute troll material, just the average scale to hot.

Little miss flower

Written from a small city middle of no where kink thinkin kinda gal.


aflower2c 43F  
9815 posts
2/14/2018 3:46 pm

Just ran into this lately on the dating site.... so humiliation isn't my thing.
But when a guy claims he's open then sees a pic then disappears that gets pretty old fast.
So the safest thing for me to believe: men just want hot conventionally attractive women and the younger the better.

Little miss flower

Written from a small city middle of no where kink thinkin kinda gal.


aflower2c 43F  
9815 posts
2/14/2018 3:49 pm

I'm going to hide the responses for now, so answer how you want.
Yes I fully understand that We all have preferences. ...

Little miss flower

Written from a small city middle of no where kink thinkin kinda gal.


wantaplay8 65M
3014 posts
2/14/2018 4:16 pm

Not a clue as to WHY!
Some just can't except what you write to them I guess.


aflower2c replies on 2/14/2018 6:35 pm:
Yes, I know that is part of the reason.... maybe its an ego thing and he doesn't like to be proven wrong (that gasp a female is telling the truth)

proteus_2a 52M
4940 posts
2/15/2018 2:45 am

As long as a lady shows real spirit and is roughly in my league,it's basically ok
Otherwise, no need to joust and hassle ...

Cheers - P


aflower2c replies on 2/15/2018 6:01 am:
Yes... but do you treat good looking women better than you would an average looking one?

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