UPDATED: 8/7/23 HELLO ADULT FRIEND! Generally, I'd consider myself a serial monogamist.  I joined this site after a relationship ended and I just needed to get my mind past it.  Still here because, well, I haven't met anyone and boredom!  Are you boring?  Don't have a sense of humor?  Can't communicate?  Swipe left...Oh Wrong app.  You get it. I'm very outgoing, most would say funny, and caring (maybe too much).  I like to meet and get to know people.  I can talk to almost anyone and get real personal real quick with a random stranger. Airport bars are my jam.    I'm certainly open to being friends with anyone (well ALMOST anyone), but I'm fairly busy, and I don't need another pen pal.  If you don't want to meet fairly quickly and at least see if there's some chemistry, then let's don't and say we did.  Chemistry you say?  Yes.  Believe it or not, not all guys will sleep with anyone and everyone.  If we don't click, let's just be friends.   I'll still be respectful and considerate.  Maybe I'll be your wingman. I'm just not looking to rack up notches on bedposts.  I am totally not judging you or anyone else.  You scratch up all the furniture you want.  ;)  I'm just being me. I'm fairly fit not because I'm narcissistic or JUST trying to get laid.  I race triathlons, Spartan races, HYROX, and similar competitive pursuits.  Don't get me wrong, when with a partner, I want THAT PERSON to be happy.  All that said, I don't have a particular type of my own.  I like all body types... it goes back to chemistry.  If I really like you, it's because of what's inside and the outside is just the package - a package I want to unwrap and play with.   My love language for receiving is touch!  You like me, touch my hand, rub my arm, I'll notice!  I won't let you know I notice at least not in some big overt way.   I also like quality time and words of affirmation.  Yeah I don't hate being told "you look nice!"   I'll naturally reciprocate all these things.  Especially words.  If you aren't comfortable with compliments, you should tell me.  I'll tone it down but still find a way to get the point across.   What I'm not good at is gifts.  If you want a present, we're going to have to be in a long term thing, and you're going to have to tell me what you like.  You don't need to buy me anything.  Buy something sexy for you and I'll appreciate THAT!   I have a 19-year old at home with bi-polar; so we can't go back to my place.  

My Ideal Person No person is ever ideal. Ask your therapist!

Qualities I like are:
Intelligent
Communicative
Sensual
Driven
Assertive
Sense of humor
Any body type

I think maybe I'm most of those things.