I am not the woman looking for a one night stand. I want more of a connection and somebody that will take a chance to get to know me. I want somebody that is real and isn't playing head games or creating a lot of drama. Someone who means what that say and say what they mean and are honest and upfront. Chemistry means a lot too. It's great seeing if there is chemistry there with a person. If there is that chemistry I do like a few things. I like a guy to take charge. Being tied up with possibly a blindfold or collar, hair being pulled and being totally at the whim of someone is exciting to me. Being exposed to different sensations without being able to control it is a big turn on. Things like soft cloth or fur tickling the body or warm wax being dripped warming the body or ice causing the opposite effect.... or even a swat of a paddle. I am a bit shy with new people and prefer the guy to take charge but once I am comfortable with someone the shyness melts away. I love to chat on-line abut do take a little longer to warm up on the phone or in person. I also just like having fun. I'm a bit goofy and a little bit of a geek playing video games and reading and yes I even play Dungeons and Dragons with freinds. I am also the one watching the discovery channel to see the Mythbusters blow things up or history channel with evidence that the aliens are out there. I'm the kinda of person that will play on the swings or marry-go-round at a park a just to be silly. And I've been known to push ride a shopping cart or two. Other then that I am clean and always safe and I expect the same from people I meet if it goes that far. Would love to chat with you so send me a message, catch my eye with something more then just a one-liner. :)

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a caring confident person without being too arrogant. I love a sense of humor and people that can take a joke. A person that does not take life too seriously and can laugh at themselves sometimes. I can be a bit sarcastic and would like somebody who can realize when I'm teasing. Someone who can also be supportive in other areas of my life and be someone I could talk to about my day to day life with a sympathetic ear when needed or encouragement to do something to improve myself. I would want that person to care about me and my growth and my self esteem and help to make that grow. I would want somebody that would encourage me to try new things without overstepping my boundaries and somebody who wants to get to know me as a person and accept my personality and my silly quirks.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Pink, Gwen Stafani, Tori Amos, Ani DiFranco

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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