Male Dom looking for a female sub in South Alabama/Gulf Coast interested in some discrete play. Would love to talk and build a relationship online. I’m looking for someone who is fun and challenging to talk to and Who likes to flirt. If we hit it off online and make a good connection then move it to IRL. I’m an experienced Dom with a love for CNC play and ropes. I’m looking for someone who sexually wants to be used you in every way possible while you are powerless and have no choice but to willingly comply. I highly value your safety and pleasure as well as mine. I like to communicate and fantasize through the scene with my sub beforehand. I’m a firm believer in respecting my sub’s boundaries and insist on the use of safe words to play. Not looking for someone who wants a 24/7 situation. I treat my subs as nasty as thy want to be treated while we play but outside the scene I believe in treating them like a lady and enjoy after care as well. I’m in my 40s and 5’10”€. Clean-cut professional. I’m a big guy. I consider myself an educated country boy who is just as at home sitting on the tailgate drinking a beer as I am drinking wine in a five-star restaurant. I can actually hold a conversation and am interested in you outside the scene as well. If you find BDSM appealing, yet have never tried it or been to scared too. Don’t be! Reach out, I would love to hear from you. Don’t think inexperience or age rules you out in my eyes. If your afraid of being outed, don’t be I have no desire to harm anyone like that. I know what this area is like. You are right o have reservations about contacting a stranger online and how fraught that might be. Regardless of your hangups, you shouldn’t hesitate to reach out to me. I'm open to any questions or scenarios you want to run by me. Whoever you may be, I'm interested in seeing an intimate part of you that you've never shown other men. I’m open to talking with you about it and exploring with you what you are really looking for. I would love to provide you this safe space to fully express yourself. If after talking, you find yourself not interested just let me know. I won’t attack you for it. We are wasting our time if there isn’t a mutual interest, so you can expect a kind response from me and we can both return to our respective searches. If you’re interested, message me something other then just hello. Tell me something about yourself or your dirtiest desire that will pique my interest as well.