welcome to our first profile together! now that we have each other, there are some experiences we would like to share. as much as we have explored our sexualities and spiritualities before, the journey is that much more special with someone you truly love by your side. we are both clean mature professionals, relatively fit and with many varied interests from working out to quietly reading, too many to list here. leave us a message on our blog page [blog NxplcbleNchntmnt]. actually, we are mostly here for the bloggers at this point, we have found very few people here actually want to meet. we havent given up yet, but for the sake of the intriguing bloggers we've found and may yet find, we'll hang around. maybe that special girl will appear yet =) we are not hook-up kind of people. well, not most of the time =) we are looking to make friends above all else who share our belief in open honest relationships. friends who would be just as into going to a concert or camp out with us as they would to a swing or strip club. friends who understand the difference between free love and casual sex, and dont have time to waste on casual sex!

My Ideal Person while we are open to meeting any friends who think as we do, we are mainly looking to meet a single female. yes, so are a bazillion other couples, but we remain hopeful. so far, this place has proven to be full of women who dont actually want to meet, or send a message or two then disappear... so it goes, we are patient, but know that we are not fakes and not just "figuring things out."

we do have busy lives, so some planning is necessary. especially if you would like to meet us both, as he travels for work. so, lets get to know each other first. we are looking for friends, too, not just playmates. he is straight she is bi. not "curious" or "experimenting" either... so be prepared =) we are very secure in our relationship and have no problems playing separately. so if you would rather have female only contact, thats fine. if you would rather just meet with her or me, thats fine too. we are very accommodating.

as for appearance, we are both flexible when the right connection is there. a healthy body of any type is attractive, but he does tend to go for fair women, blonde or redhead and blue or green eyes. that isnt a rule though, just a tendency. she tends to prefer men with long hair, generally tall and dark. wait... we just described each other =)